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Thursday, April 29, 2010

Funkishness



One of the big questions to be answered in the whole living-life thing is how to escape our own heads. More precisely, how do we propel ourselves beyond funkishness and rut-think to something better?

My one-word answer to this: Books.
In addition to an impressive library of literature and things I generally wouldn't mind a reality TV-show crew filming, I have a host of books -- some of which look very much like the disparaged "self-help" category -- that I keep hidden in shelves on the bedroom. Some are of a spiritual ilk. Some speak of art. More than a few address various kinds of anxieties, for it was my luck to be born and/or bred into a nervous nature, though I pass for confident.

Once, in period of sustained desperation, I ordered (I almost always ORDER these kinds of books, rarely buy them at the bookstore) a tome on handling difficult bosses.

That one didn't work.

Mostly, though, they do. Mostly, just reading them, and often skipping the steps that require me to, say, act things out by myself in a kind of weird, self-helpy Gestalt, provides a bungee-cord snap back to some form of good cheer and optimism. And with the art books, it's often a trip to that lovely land called inspiration.

So, wondering: What kind of funkishness plagues you, and what do you do about it?

2 comments:

Kay said...

timely post for me as I have been dealing with "funkishness" for a while now. I find art books and magazines are wonderful, and seeing other art in galleries ..hanging out with some artist friends..but friends are busy and weather and illness have kept me from seeing art in person. I too have a slew of self help books..but I think the thing that helps me the most is a restorative nap with an attempt to dreamily see my art happening..while I lay on the couch or in the sun with my eyes closed I imagine new paintings..from the composition to the color....It seems to get me happy to do more art. Of course I try to suround myself with positve people but when that is in short supply a walk by myself helps. I just think we need several tools to help ourselves. I have been endeavoring to not feel burdened by the to do lists and bills and just let myself daydream..I was really good at daydreaming as a child and it feels good when I can get that feeling of deja vu again..even if for a fleeting moment.

Don West said...

Ditto Kay. Except I talk to, hug, and walk my dog as well.